You’ve tried the books. The podcasts. The therapy sessions that left you nodding and smiling while nothing really changed.
Deep down, you’re asking: “Why do I feel like a stranger in my own life?”
This isn’t about motivation hacks or quick tips. This is about the man you’ve buried under years of doing what you thought you were “supposed” to do.
If you’ve ever whispered, “I don’t even recognize myself anymore,” this is for you.

Give Me 60 Minutes And I’ll Show You How To Wake Up The Man You Were Meant To Be

Give Me 3 Days And I’ll Show You How To Wake Up The Man You Were Meant To Be

Even If Nothing Has Worked Before

You can come back stronger, clearer, and more powerful than ever — even if you’ve been lost in shame, running from yourself, and convinced the fight was over

LIVE! 60 Minutes – October 15th, 2025 | 1 PM EST

Is This Event For You?

YES! This Event Is For You, Especially If...

You feel like you’ve lost yourself in work, relationships, or routine.

You’ve tried fixing it before, but nothing seemed to stick.

You’ve started wondering if this is just “as good as it gets.

You catch yourself feeling more like a provider, paycheck, or roommate than a man.

You’re angry, restless, or numb—and you don’t know why.

If you’re ready to stop drifting through life and start becoming the man you were meant to be… then Becoming Him:

Then The Becoming Him Workshop will show you how.

What You'll Learn During The Becoming Him Workshop:

What You'll Learn During The Becoming Him Workshop!

Secret #1:

The Identity Gap

What You’ll Learn:

✓Why effort without identity will always fail

✓How your default wiring keeps you stuck on autopilot

✓The truth about “performing” versus becoming

Person A vs. Person B: who you’re actually building toward

You’re not broken. You’re misaligned.

Secret #2:

The Resonance Principle

What You’ll Learn:

✓The Resonance Metaphor: why life feels “off frequency”

✓How anxiety is often just misalignment

✓The secret to returning to your natural rhythm

✓Why your relationships, career, and peace of mind shift when you shift

The world mirrors back the man you are being.

Secret #3:

The Internal Rebuild

What You’ll Learn:

✓The Ship of Theseus: how to rebuild piece by piece

✓Why gratitude is a trap when it locks you in place

✓The Flea in the Cup: how conditioning limits you

✓The power of decision to walk through the right door

You don’t owe anyone the old version of you.

What You'll Learn During The Becoming Him Workshop!

YOUR HOST

During the Becoming hIm workshop!

Ryan Mathis

Clinical Social Work/Therapist,LCSW

I used to think my life had one track — military toughness, no weakness allowed. But when that track ended, I was left with nothing. No mission. No compass. I was broke, injured, and lost. That’s when I realized I’d never actually chosen who I wanted to become. I was just acting out what I thought I had to be. Everything shifted when I gave myself permission to build someone new.

I’m here to walk with you while you remember yourself.