You’ve tried the books. The podcasts. The therapy sessions that left you nodding and smiling while nothing really changed.
Deep down, you’re asking: “Why do I feel like a stranger in my own life?”
This isn’t about motivation hacks or quick tips. This is about the man you’ve buried under years of doing what you thought you were “supposed” to do.
If you’ve ever whispered, “I don’t even recognize myself anymore,” this is for you.

Discover The 'Becoming Him' Secret That Transforms Lost, Angry, Numb Men Into

The Powerful Leaders They Were Meant To Be!

Give Me 3 Days And I’ll Show You How To Wake Up The Man You Were Meant To Be

Even If Nothing Has Worked Before

Finally Stop Feeling Like A Stranger In Your Own Life And Start Being The Man You See In Your Head But Have Never Been Able To Become

You can come back stronger, clearer, and more powerful than ever — even if you’ve been lost in shame, running from yourself, and convinced the fight was over

LIVE! 60 Minutes – November 14th, 2025 | 1 PM EST

Is This Event For You?

YES! This Event Is For You, Especially If...

You wake up every day feeling like you're living someone else's life.

You've tried the books, the podcasts, the therapy sessions - but you're still stuck in the same damn loop.

You look in the mirror and think "Is this really all there is?"

You catch yourself feeling more like a provider, paycheck, or roommate than a man.

You’re angry, restless, or numb—and you don’t know why.

If you’re ready to stop drifting through life and start becoming the man you were meant to be… then Becoming Him:

Then The Becoming Him Workshop will show you how.

What You'll Learn During The Becoming Him Workshop:

What You'll Learn During The Becoming Him Workshop!

Secret #1:

The Identity Gap

What You’ll Learn:

✓Why effort without identity will always fail

✓How your default wiring keeps you stuck on autopilot

✓The truth about “performing” versus becoming

Person A vs. Person B: who you’re actually building toward

You’re not broken. You’re misaligned.

Secret #2:

The Resonance Principle

What You’ll Learn:

✓The Resonance Metaphor: why life feels “off frequency”

✓How anxiety is often just misalignment

✓The secret to returning to your natural rhythm

✓Why your relationships, career, and peace of mind shift when you shift

The world mirrors back the man you are being.

Secret #3:

The Internal Rebuild

What You’ll Learn:

✓The Ship of Theseus: how to rebuild piece by piece

✓Why gratitude is a trap when it locks you in place

✓The Flea in the Cup: how conditioning limits you

✓The power of decision to walk through the right door

You don’t owe anyone the old version of you.

What You'll Learn During The Becoming Him Workshop!

YOUR HOST

During the Becoming hIm workshop!

Ryan Mathis

Clinical Social Work/Therapist,LCSW

I used to think my life had one track — military toughness, no weakness allowed. But when that track ended, I was left with nothing. No mission. No compass. I was broke, injured, and lost. That’s when I realized I’d never actually chosen who I wanted to become. I was just acting out what I thought I had to be. Everything shifted when I gave myself permission to build someone new.

I’m here to walk with you while you remember yourself.